Observing Communication

I observed my assistant with a student when they came back from lunch. This student had not made good choices in the hallway while they were walking. There are classes going on in this hallway and our expectations are that the children are quiet and respectful when walking down this hallway. On this particular day, one of my students was talking loudly and pushing another friend to hurry up. The student ended up falling down because of the pushing. My assistant pulled both students out of line and asked the one who fell down if he was ok, what had happened, drying his tears, and checking his knees out for bumps. My assistant then asked the other student what happened and he just shrugged his shoulders. She asked him to look at his friend's face for a clue. She asked, "Does he look happy?" The other little boy said, "No." She said, "Does he look sad?" The other little boy nodded his head yes. She then asked him what might have made him sad. Still the little boy just shrugged his shoulders. Then she asked "Do you think falling down and hurting his knees might have made him sad?" This time the other little boy said yes. She asked him if there was anything he could do to help him feel better and he said, "I could say I'm sorry." She agreed and asked if there was anything else. He was not sure so she commented on how that was a good choice. The little boy said, "I am sorry I pushed you down." The other little boy just kind of looked at him at first but then he said, "It's ok."

I think my assistant handled the situation well. She was down on their level and talked to both of them. She asked questions which was also a good idea. The little boy that did the pushing has been having these little incidents for a few weeks now and I ended up talking to mom about them. There are some issues going on at home so it's obviously effecting him as well.

We both get down on their levels to talk to our children. We like to engage in conversations with them and ask questions to encourage their thought process and how they see things. Not every child will come up with the same answers and it's interesting to see them think things through. I know we both can continue working on this because there are days that kids are having issues or problems and sometimes we step in and solve it for them. I need to stop and remember that because I don't want the children to get used to us solving their problems.

Creating Affirming Environments

I hope to convey the message of welcome to any family and child that comes here.


There are posters and pictures everywhere that depict every kind of family imaginable. These posters are found throughout the room and in the play areas.

In the Let's Pretend center, families will find a variety of dolls with different skin tones and abilities. There will also be clothing for children to dress up in themselves as well as the baby dolls. There is a variety of food from different countries such as rice, tacos, and spaghetti. There are also different cooking utensils too and empty food boxes that will also encourage environmental print reading. A large mirror can be found in this area too so that children can look at each other and notice their friends.  In addition, there are family pictures from each family posted in this area to remind children how important their families are to them.

In the Book Nook, there are many stuffed animals and large pillows tucked away into a cozy corner. There are posters in this area promoting reading and there is a large book shelf that has a wide variety of books that cover topics from multicultural to 2 mommies/2 daddies to single parents. I will make sure that books are always available for the children and families and that families are encouraged to bring in any books they want to share with the rest of the children. Books are probably the most important component of my classroom because I love reading and looking at a book with a child.

In the Music Center, there are many different types of musical instruments for children to play. The musical CD's are a variety of different types music, rhythms, and composers. Children are encouraged to follow along to the beat and to find dress up clothes to wear.

The room is also labeled in both English and Spanish words for all the items that children find. There are pictures on shelves where the toys are stored so that children know where they go. This place is a work in progress; it takes time and patience to find the things that will make the room a welcome environment. Starting small is a good idea and will make the program a happy place for everyone to be a part of.